The term selfie was coined, curated, Curly Hair Cutie Gallery and continued by the ever-innovative millennial. Sure, additional a long time had been acquiring selfies with their extra kodaks but we have been the class to provide this principle living. And while many of us mastered the necessary nooks, crannies, and angles to aim the target at in order to take the best of the best selfies, we're still mastering the art of the sexy selfies, er, thirst traps depending on who's asking and who's telling.

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Sexy selfies are more distinguished, poised, sophisticated than your run of the mill nude pic. It leaves just enough to the imagination while also allowing the imagination of your target audience to get a sneak peak of what they're actually missing...at very least for the brief instant.

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Sexy selfies say "stay ready, so you don't have to get ready" should a nosey mofo somehow find their way into your private collection, in the case that you reserve them for a special someone (yourself included). Regular nudes scream "basic" and "amateur." At this grown age, we should all take pride in our sexy selfies, regardless of who they're intended for-if for no reason other than if I go out (because I've been tried), I'm chooseing out with a la newwsuit and hella pride. Nothing less.

Sexy selfies run the gamut when it comes to the attire. You can be as naked as you please, but as you'll know from your experience with regular selfies, it's the pose and angles everytime that put the sex in sexy.

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While it does take patience, it's not impossible for any of us to pull off our own little boudoir photos. I arrived at to the sexiest out, most sensual selfie-taking people (myself included) that I know of for the best tips on how to execute and shoot your own sexy selfies. But, if you've ever seen your homegirl or fave influencer or whoever, post sexy selfies and wonder "how" - wonder no more.

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Kiarra Sylvester, She/Her, Sex Educator

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"It's far from a perfect science and I'm way form being the perfect scientist but here's what I can say as the underdog of sexy selfies: Seduce yourself! View yourself from the same lens that a romantic partner might view you from - that's the type of self-love and unwavering lusty confidence that makes for a good selfie.

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"Also, be committed to trying various angles! For a good one man shoot, I've gone as far as taping my phone to a ceiling fan for a flattering aerial view. As always, accessories are a girl's best friend! I, personally, have used everything from wigs, hand fans, and mirrors.

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"Lastly, it's give and take. Give a little thigh, take a little quad. Much like a game of operation you want to try moving all of your parts until you've got a match. The mind-fuckery of applying a little thigh or supply cover as a makeshift boa runs folks untamed, adding a touch of mystery."

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Orixa, She/Her, Founder of Bad Girl, Good Human

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"I developed a level of comfort with my sensuality and self-portraiture by paying attention to myself and studying my reflection daily. Wherever We can see me, I pay attention. However, translating poses into stills isn't the greatest takeaway. It is emoting. Whatever you experience in that time. Remaining fluent in your movement while in the act is what brings a sexy selfie home."

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Tailah, She/Her, OnlyFans Entrepreneur

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"Taking a sexy selfie is not as simple as it looks. But over time, it gets easier. Like anything, you get with practice better. Knowing your angles will be the first step. The saying 'one size fits all' does not apply to selfies angles. Find yours. You want to accent the hot parts of you. Curves, curves, curves!

"Next step is to laugh. Literally, laugh out loud. Laughing at yourself will rest your deal with and system. It reminds you that it ain't that serious, it's just a selfie after all. Step three will be the 'smize.' Yes, Tyra Banks' advice of smiling with your eyes is for real. They say 'the eyes are the key to the soul' or something like that. Look into that camera like it's the guy or girl of your dreams.

"These three steps should give you a good sexy selfie to work with. Don't skip the small details like moisturized lips, good lighting, an outfit that makes you feel like a snack, a clean space. But this is common freaking sense. All that smizing in front of a dirty bathroom sink? No baby."

Ev'Yan Whitney, They/She, Sexuality Doula and Sex Educator

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"Two of my favorite go-to tricks for my best sensual selfies that I teach in my sensual self-portraiture classes are angles and flowers. Going into it, it's important that you're familiar with your body type, its curves, features, and how you're able to position it. I recommend doing some posing in the mirror and trying out different positions; this is a great way to get to know your body. You do that Once, you'll begin to find ways to angle your body to accentuate what you've got or boost what you don't.

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"I'm a member of the small booty club but in this photo, you wouldn't know it based on the way I'm sitting-which, I'm squatting on my toes, arching my back, and strategically cropping the shot in such a way that makes my thighs and ass look bodacious (wearing thong underwear really helps too). I like to add flowers to all of my sensual selfies to bring some color and sensual softness to the shot. If all else fails, flowers are the perfect prop to play up, censor, or accentuate your sexy selfie. Invest in yourself a bouquet and possess excitement discovering the techniques you can use think about like an extra."

Kendra, She/Her, Sex Educator

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"Personally, I like to tell stories with my selfies. So my first piece of advice to the selfie-taker is, ask yourself what you're trying to say or share through your selfie: is it just a 'look at me because I'm hot' pic? 'Decipher my brooding eyes' pic? WHAT if anything do you want your viewers to pick up on?

"Secondly, choose your setting. Whether it's predetermined or an impromptu decision, placing can include or get away from from your photograph. Decorate accordingly. This entails moving items and/or furniture around. Choose your lighting. Are you working with superficial light or those 8 a.m. rays coming through your window?

"Decide if the photo should be touched up or untouched (i.e filters, Photoshop, etc). There's no shame in editing. Filters aren't always about making blemishes magically disappear. You can put some shimmer right here or there, fade a background, or blur some parts."

Allie J, She/Her, Hair Stylist and Model

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"When taking sexy selfies, I make sure that I smell tasty always. Smelling delightful would make me sense very good and becomes me hoopla for pics. Knowing your angles is important, whether you're getting a picture of just your *assets*, your silhouette or merely your deal with. For example, for my baby booty girls, the very best viewpoint is definitely possessing the web cam nearly angled under it, making it look more juicy.

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"Lastly, lighting is key for creating whatever mood you're in or trying to create. Dim light for some sultry vibes, different color LED lights for artsy vibes, or simply organic gold hours for a faultless deal with/body system photo. But the most important tip is confidence, confidence yields the best pics because the energy shines through!"

Sheriden Chanel, She/Her, Managing Editor of xoNecole and Podcast Host

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"First and foremost, I take photos of myself for me. No matter what state I am in, clothed, unclothed, whether it makes it to the 'gram or just to my man's phone, I am operating from a area where I experience connected and beautiful deeply to myself. My self-portraits are one of the ways I make love to me and remind myself I am worthy of adoration. Sexy selfies definitely get that up a notch (or several) by reminding myself that I am also a sexual being. Moreover, I can tap into those sensual and sexual sides of myself without penetration, without sex, or without a partner.

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"For me, it's all about good lighting and the mindset. My best tips for taking a sexy selfie is to first do something that makes you feel connected to your body. For me, that's dancing. I am reminded of hips, of softness, of the strength and the subtle fragility of my womanhood. I like getting myself after those times. I find a window to act as my source of light and light sheen of sweat that covers me adds to my glow. And then it's about seduction. Connect with the camera but connect with your body. Accentuate your favorite parts of your body and get beauty in the simple things: displayed shoulders, the expanse of your back, exposed tattoos that feel like whispered secrets, the curve of your peach, parted lips, and hair.

"I have other photos, but perhaps this is the one that felt safest for work to me to share..."

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